Another day of bullshit

Unfortunately I'm up again at 2 something in the morning but this time I think it's because I went to sleep too early. L had a football game today and he'd only gotten about 5 hours of sleep this morning after the drive yesterday and working all night and then having to back at work at 11 tonight. We didn't get in from the football game until after 9 so we basically ate and I laid down with him thinking I was going to watch tv but totally fell asleep right along with him. Something about him snoring all loud in my ears does that to me I guess. :D Today we had a few errands to run before the mainly getting to the leasing place to sign the police report for them to be sure that I'm me, if that makes any sense. So, we get a late start because the people at his second job were like don't worry about coming in after he told them he had to do somethings for work today and then he dropped the bomb on them that he won't be there tomorrow either cause he has to take me back home and he said he heard a bunch of static on the line after that so he said he'll show up on Wednesday and either he'll have a job or he won't. LOL I hope that he does because we could definitely use the extra money. We go to the leasing place and I was thoroughly pissed off after I left there. It was horrible and I'm not even interested in doing business with them. When I went to see the place that L is so in love with, I did not feel the same way and I don't think it's worth what they want to charge in rent. After we left the property and went back on base to get his team's jerseys and all that good stuff he's like "well I guess I'll try to figure out when I can bring you back up here so we can get the paperwork done." I'm thinking what paperwork, this fool is talking about the lease for the house I just told him I did not want to live in! So much for the whole rant that I had earlier. Then he still hasn't put us on the waiting list for housing, that's another thing I'm going to have to dig in his ass about but as soon as that comes up and even if it doesn't in that 6 month time frame that I'm hoping it does rather than that 8 month they have on the website, I wanna be out of this place. L doesn't like the idea of living on base but at this point it's our only option since he doesn't think I should pay the people the money to clear this mess up on my credit from the identity theft. I don't know things are going to get ugly on that subject. In my mind I've resolved myself to just calling a credit counselor and asking them at this point what should I do as far as this situation-should I just pay the money or continue a 3 year dispute with the creditor? I just don't want to deal with a headache every time I want to make a major purchase or get housing for us. I mean we've got some major purchases that will be coming up soon and I'm not going through what I've gone through the past week with anybody. It's just ridiculous the bullshit I went through today and my husband was oblivious to the fact.

Today was semi-productive though, we went and checked out the CDC on base and it's so cute it's like a little school. It's pretty big too for a child development center. Of course, it falls right in line with everything else at New River or Camp Lejeune, there's a waiting list. For this one however, it's 2-3 months long. Not too bad I guess. We did fill out the paperwork though and she's on the waiting list. Hopefully, her turn will come up sooner. If not she will go on the 3 year old preschool list and they'll put her on the list according to the date we put her on there so that's good but I've got to forward the director my school registration letter so that they put her on the priority 1 list. I'm glad I'm making headway with that.

The football game was a mess. The guys lost 3 key players on defense and they didn't find out until Sunday one got sent to Arizona, one got sent to Cherry Point, and I forgot what happened to the other one needless to say L was pissed off since he is the defense coach. They started out pretty good but before we knew it the score was 28-0 and the game was ending via a Mercy Call cause they were losing so bad. He really wants to play now instead of coach but he says if he does the coach will expect him to start and he doesn't want to take anyone's job. We shall see how that pans out. I think as a spectator it's more fun for my husband to be a player cause as a coach all I see him do is yell, cuss, and walk/run up and down the sideline, that's when I can see him over the giants he's coaching. I did get off and didn't have to videotape the game for the guys but I did have phone duty for one of the players who's wife is 3 days overdue and should go into labor any day now, luckily that phone call did not come through. LOL

Oh well I've been up for an hour and still not sleepy. I think I'm gonna roll over and watch a little Lifetime or HBO and go from there.

Random....

After talking with the realtor the other day and finding out that I have to turn in certain paperwork in person and sign them L and I talked and he came down to SC yesterday and we left to come up here to Jacksonville today. The ride wasn't too bad of course I passed out as usual. I tried my hardest to stay awake and it seemed like as soon as I started to get a good drool going he was exiting so of course I woke up and he asks me did I want something, I'm thinking we've rode pretty far if we're already stopping for lunch , well no he was stopping to get a 5 hour energy shot because his wife was not staying awake keeping him company. LOL He says it wouldn't matter whether I was awake or asleep because he was sleepy.So of course after we stopped I stayed awake for a little while but dozed back off again. I did wake up outside of Wilmington and I've gotta say Wilmington is a beautiful coastal city from what I saw. I can't wait to visit again , maybe make a little day trip up there to see it. Once we got here we got settled and we went to L's football practice it was pretty cool. I'm excited about the game tomorrow and see how well he does with the coaching. Today was pretty cool though I heard him yell a couple times, but tomorrow I'm sure he will act a monkey. LOL I met a couple of the guys on the team and his coach so it was cool. He introduces me as "my girl" WTF...how about "my wife" he's so retarded. It sucks because whenever I refer to him I either say his name or I say "my husband". It kinda hurts my feelings because it's like he has stated on more than one occasion that most people that know him does not even know that he's married yet. WTH is up with that?!?! I don't know maybe I'm bugging for no reason. We talked about it and he says it's just a thing, which I'm sure it is but I mean dude I'm your wife now and I love to hear it when he says it in reference to me. He just left to go to work, so this is my practice run being in Jacksonville and being home alone overnight while he is at work. It would be easier if Jasmine were here, which we both talked and she can come as soon as we find a daycare for her versus waiting a couple months until we get things situated so I'm hoping we can get here there by November at the latest. We also agreed that if I still wanted to I would start looking for a job in January versus doing it in October as soon as I move. I want to take that time to get the house situated and just learn about the area. Of course he keeps going on about working being optional for me, which I am so glad for that but we will see. Jasmine is going to go to daycare still, probably just part time though. I miss her during the day and it's been rough on her the past few days with me leaving her there. I'm still not sure how to handle that situation though. I'll figure it out as we go.